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Nice very nice
Ouch. I feel bad that you both are going through that. That's not easy to navigate. And you're a lesbian, not bi? Obviously it's none of my business but your post is available for all to see so I thought I'd ask. Feel free to ignore the question... its just that my wife is bi and sometimes she wants to be with a woman. Im okay with it because its just sex, not relationship stuff. That said, what she really wants is a live in gf that we can be with together. Idk if that's an option for you two or not. Two women together sexually is just so different from guy/girl intimacy that it's never bothered me when she wants to fool around with another woman... but sharing her on an emotional level where she could develop feelings for someone else would be hard. I think I would at least try it if the alternative was us splitting up. If this isn't an option for you, I know you will figure out how to navigate this part of your life... because you love him and I bet he still loves you even if he's hurting right now. I apologize if I'm way off base saying all this...
No I am gay and we haven't really been intimate in a long time. We are just really good friends that have built a life together. We still have children that live with us so having a live in isn't an option. Besides he doesn't want that at all. I gave him the opportunity to pursue what he wants but he said he really doesn't care to go down that road. I thought it was depression at first but he seems ok and we don't have the little life arguments anymore.
Will you let him have a girlfriend? Or what if you find yourself a girlfriend that is bi and could be interested in him also?
I personally knew a husband and wife that the wife has a live is girlfriend. The girlfriend was a lesbian and was only into the wife. They were able to make it work. The wife was bi.
I wanted him to find a connection but he really doesn't seem to care to look or try. I didn't believe him but he said he is happy the way things are with us fullfilling our roles for the home and family.